These three words seem to be popping up in all conversations right now. So, I thought I would write you a story on how you can change your life right now to help you find that sense of purpose that is hidden away in you.
After the last two and a half, frustrated years, we seem to be stretching our own tether rope and choking ourselves down. We can’t seem to move forward. We have difficulties in thinking positive thoughts. The changes we were hoping for are just not happening. There seems to be another catastrophe following one after the other!
Let’s talk about the big one that I am given by you in conversation and take a little peek at how many of you have put on weight! We all seem to have eaten more, exercised less, and blamed everybody else! Many of you had grandiose plans that soon fell out the door and disappeared as you munched your way through your snacks. So how does one begin? Let us start with the size of your dinner plate and take the next one down. That’s right, the—bread and butter—plate! Now fill it up and pile it high with your menu. Believe me, it works. Have you realized that you are sending yourself an important message that you no longer require a large serving to satisfy your ego? You have changed its format; therefore, it has to try and pull you back into its old safety harness, where it can regain control over you. Keep persevering, your willpower is in your next positive thought; remember you are in charge of you, not your ego!
Over the last few months many of you have realized that your debt is accumulating and there does not seem to be enough money to spread around. Many have endured a decrease to your income, and your money seems to slip through your fingers at a faster rate than ever before. Draw up a list that explains to you what must be paid and when it is due. This made a huge difference in my life, when I needed it as I could prepare my mind to make sure that the money was slowly building up in the bank and ready for the account, when it was due.
I was so proud to hear the news that many of you had paid off your bank cards, as I also know many of you were pleased with your outcome. And then Christmas came and back into the stores you went using this bankcard and of course the banks were very happy with your ego taking control once again, while you booked up and repeated the same mistake that created the difficulty in the first place. Now this little venture must also be paid for. What happened to your sense of purpose? Really, we are our own worst enemy, aren’t we? What happened to you being in charge of you! Please remember your will power is in your next thought!
And now to many of you who have been stood down through no fault of your own as many businesses have had to close their doors and now you are retired from your workplace. All of a sudden, your sense of purpose is no longer working for you. It stood you up every morning, got you dressed, out to the car and off to work. So now you sit around all day and potter here and there. At the end of the day, you feel that you have let yourself down and that your day has been wasted.
Now we call in the—Social Connection—to suffice you. We have many clubs who have sports groups that are gentle and soothing to the mind. There are many other clubs that you can join regarding talking, sharing the same interests that you have had during your life time and if not then ask yourself “what would I like to do?” So get up and shop around for the new you. Please remember, it is the social connection that will benefit you in the long run and keep you occupied. We need to talk to others, to share with others, as they were once in the same boat that you have found yourself today. So, pack up your troubles in your old kit bag and smile, smile, smile! Remember what I have spoken about on this blog, you need a sense of purpose to keep you healthy, wealthy and wise. Don’t be afraid to change your mind, your willpower is in your next positive thought!
Blessed Be, Omni.